then, the weightiness of accepting members. Consider the weightiness of saying goodbye to those who move to another city; much more the weightiness of excluding them. If churches were to undertake such considerations, receiving members would be treated more like an adoption. “Are the child’s papers in order? Have all the necessary questions been asked by both sides of the adoption? How can we best serve and protect this child?” Saying goodbye to members as they depart for another city would feel
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